Why Everyone Should Use Bedroom Toys
Not everyone has tried using bedroom toys in the bedroom. Some find buying them embarrassing, some don’t think their partners will understand and some just don’t see the point in using them. But let me tell you, don’t say no just yet! Experimenting is always fun and using sex toys is no different! Not to create a male stereotype, but I know a few girls who have boyfriends who won’t agree to using them. The stigma of “well you don’t need them if you have me!” is just ridiculous. Here’s a list of how sex toys can help improve your sex-life.
1. Using them helps you become more self-aware.
Especially if you’re using bedroom toys alone, it can help you become more aware of what works for you and why. It helps you get to know your body and what gives you pleasure. If you’re scared of what your partner may think, try them for yourself first! I’m sure you’ll be pleasantly surprised.
2. Opens you up to new experiences…literally.
Like any type of experimentation, you might find that you enjoy it a lot more than you thought you would. It’s a whole new type of orgasm!
3. They can make your sex-life a lot more fun.
A lot of couples can get concerned about getting bored in bed. Once you’ve been together for a long time, you just need something a little different to try. Bedroom toys are definitely a fun addition to the list. It’s surprising how much fun it can be to use them on the other person too!
4. A good bonding experience for you and your partner.
Not only is it a way to explore what you both like, but it’s also a good bonding experience to buy them too. There’s a lot to choose from! If you’re both a little uncomfortable at first, don’t panic or back out! It might feel embarrassing to start but that’ll only make it funnier. Once you understand that it’s actually a really normal thing for couples to try out, you’ll start to enjoy the shopping trips too.
5. Girls can’t always cum without them.
Not every woman can cum with only penetration. Sometimes the toys give that extra bit of help needed to get there. And men…stop feeling annoyed by that! There’s no need to ever feel threatened by sex toys. It isn’t a comment on your skills it’s just biology. So, why not try something new?
6. There’s something for everyone!
It doesn’t matter the gender or personal preference, there is a sex toy for everyone! Just take a look online or in store and you’ll see that there’s actually a bigger selection that you probably first thought. Doesn’t matter the shape or size, you just have to try it out. See what works for you and go with it!
7. It can take the pressure of performing off each other.
A lot of people can feel shy during sex. They become concerned about how well they’re doing and it can get a bit underwhelming if you over-think it. Using sex toys takes the pressure off everyone involved. It gives that extra little jolt to get to orgasm and can also turn the person using them on too! Do yourself a favour, give yourself a break and let the toys do the work for a bit. We’re only human after all.
8. Greater chance of multiple orgasms.
Yes, girls! Multiple orgasms, should I even go on?
9. Puts your curiosities to bed.
Everyone has a fantasy or curiosity about sex. If one of them is using sex toys, then why are you even reading this? Get out there and go shopping! Don’t deny yourself that fantasy.
10. It’s just a lot of fun!
It’s honestly fun for everyone involved. Don’t believe me? Well, you know what to do!
No matter what you originally think about using bedroom toys, you shouldn’t let that stop you from giving them a go. If you or your partner have any reservations about them, just have a good discussion about it first. Only you know what’s right for your sex-life. But if there’s ever an opportunity to give it a go, do it! If you don’t enjoy, hey, you tried, right?
