Guys can be such an f’ing pest to deal with sometimes. You can be wanting one thing, and they’ll clearly be after another. It’s really rough out there ladies! Well I don’t know if you’ve come across these but I’m going to share them anyway. Here’s 8 ways to tell that a guy just wants to sleep with you so that if you see them doing these, you can cut it off right there and leave em with their mouths hanging open.
The first and most annoying thing that shows a guy just wants to sleep with you, is when they talk to you from the side of their face. If you’re dating a guy or in a relationship and he can never look you in the eye when you’re talking, it’s most likely because he’s not really interested in what you want to talk about. He’s waiting for the part in the conversation where the words turn into onomatopoeia’s. If a guy doesn’t care about what you have to say and shows no interest in other aspects of the relationship, he could just be in it for the sex.
Ever have a guy just go all out all the time and it seems fake? Like they have intentions for you and that’s why they’re making an effort? They’re over doing it. Getting you everything that you like. Making it their mission to show you that they can give you anything. Just really boastful with it. Yeah. They might just want in your pants. This type of guy can be trying to bait you with snobbery and you mustn’t give in!
If you’re spending quality time with a guy and he’s always bothered. Like he’s annoyed by you as soon as he gets to you and at everything you do while you’re together. He’s not just having a bad day, although if he’s a liar he might say that’s all it is. If he does these things and only shows interest in sex, then you are being played. He most likely doesn’t care to have an actual relationship with you. He just wants to hook-up and will be less bothered when you do. Don’t feel sorry for him or think you need to make him feel better.
This one is obvious. Guys who don’t care to take their time to know or learn a thing about you, are acting off of hormones. They just want to fµ©k. They ask you out on a date, and make fast moves like trying to kiss you before you’ve even established anything, or worse get too touchy feely. You can tell a guy like this just wants to sleep with you. If you want more than a buddy, I suggest never giving in on the first meet or date. This guy is going to use you for sex. This is key to knowing if a guy just wants to sleep with you.
You can tell when a guy is putting on a show for you, but it’s not the same as when he’s being too satisfying. It’s more like he’s agreeing and accepting too much. Anything you ask, anything you want to talk about he’s over interested and it just doesn’t seem real. That’s because it’s not. Trust your intuition, because it’s the best supernatural power of a woman. He just wants to sleep with you so he’ll agree with anything you say. Don’t buy into the attention.
Once again, use your intuition. Lies are spottable. Look a guy in the eyes, watch his body gestures, cross-check his facts. Don’t just believe everything he tells you. When people lie it’s because they want to achieve something that they couldn’t if they told the truth. And one easy way to tell a guy just wants to sleep with you is if he’s lying about it. Hesitating with a response when you ask if he likes hanging out with you. Bulging eyes and wide smiles when they tell you they “really like you.” Unh Unh. I see right through those.
We’re all familiar with the booty call. A guy only calls you at certain times to talk. If you’re always answering his calls at those times and making it ok to hang out (and you don’t at any other time), then you’re a booty call. Sounds surreal? It’s not. It happens. A guy who claims he has an odd work schedule, or is always busy at other times of the day, is a lying booty-caller and just wants to have sex. Nothing more. Unless you can verify his whereabouts, I wouldn’t trust it. And it’s always worth it to be sure.
Lastly, if you’re involved with a guy you never have fun with and all you ever do is sit around and then have sex, he doesn’t care about you. If a guy is into you he will make an effort to make you happy. Take you places, even if they’re free, share experiences of common interest, whether you’re into board games, video games, or poetry, he will make an effort to do something rather than nothing. If you have a guy who just comes over and hangs until you eventually have sex, you don’t have a boyfriend, you have a sex friend.
Remember it’s always worth it to be sure about a guy, because you’re investing time, money, effort, and emotion into relationships. Don’t settle for a guy who just wants to have sex with you, if you want more than that. Go the extra mile to make sure he’s true because the one who survives the examination is the one who’s worth keeping!
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