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10 Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life

There’s no excuse not to spice up your sex life, besides that maybe you just don’t know how. In every relationship there comes a time where your intimacy can get a little dull. This doesn’t mean that there isn’t love still there. You both might just need to be more open minded and involve some of these tips to really liven things up in the bedroom.

1. Use sex toys

This is probably the easiest way to add a little spice to your sex life. There are so many different tools and toys both you and your partner can benefit from. Go to a sex shop together and explore all the different toys they have. Test out a few to see which ones you like. They may just make both of your orgasms that much more pleasurable.

2. Explore fetishes

Everyone has a fetish. It’s just hidden deep down in yourself, because you’re afraid of what other’s may think of you. The point of love and being in a relationship, is to be open and honest about who you are and what you want. Try out different kinks with your partner. If you want to be tied up to your bed frame and spanked, let them know. They may like it just as much as you.

3. Try to roleplay

Role play is a great way to spice up your sex life. You’ll get the opportunity to play out your favorite fantasies with the person you love. Not only that, but it’s the time you get to pretend you are someone you’re not. Play the roles of teacher and student, or go out to a bar and pretend you have never met one another. It makes the sex that much more exciting.

4. Have a threesome

This one can be a little tricky, but very rewarding if done right. You both have to make sure to agree on who it is you would want to spice up your sex life with and they have to be willing to do so also. It only becomes awkward if there is any miscommunication or lack of willingness. When it’s done right, it can be a very rewarding experience that you get to share with your partner. Just remember to communicate effectively about it.

5. Watch porn together

The best way to learn how to spice up your sex life, is by watching other people do it. When you watch porn together you can both learn about different methods and positions to reach another level of pleasure. Explore different kinds of genres and decide what you both are willing to try. Plus, just watching porn itself will get you both hot and ready to do it.

6. Embrace foreplay

When we get too comfortable with the person we love, we tend to forget all about foreplay. Spice up your sex life by integrating it back in. You both can explore the ways in which you lead up to the actual act of sex. This could be through oral, fingering or even heavy make out sessions. This will take you back to a time when you first started dating.

7. Seduce each other

Buy her flowers, wear lingerie for him, tease one another—these are all ways you can get your partner really wanting you. This only builds up the tension for when you actually do have sex. It spices up your sex life by making one another want each other even more than they did before. Plus, it’s just downright sexy.

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8. Change the environment

It’s nice having sex in the comfort of your bed, but have you ever tried a hot tub or in the back of the movie theatres? You can really spice up your sex life by making a change in the environment. It can really add more excitement to all that you’re doing—especially in the possibility you may get caught. This may be uncomforting for some, but for those willing to try it definitely should.

9. Play a sex game

There are so many different sex games out there to try. They involve rolling dice or trading different pleasures. If you don’t know exactly where to start, this may be the best way to spice up your sex life. It comes with rules and leads you to different things both you and your partner can try without you having to put in much effort.

10. Involve more romance

For those who are a little timid about sex and trying new things, maybe the best way is to just involve more romance. We lose romance so easily when getting comfortable with a partner. The best thing to do is spark the flame once again by doing romantic gestures for your love. Make them a bubble bath, a candle light dinner or buy them some flowers. This will remind them of how much you love them, which will then lead to an intimate night of lovemaking.

How do you feel about these methods to spice up your sex life? Let us know in the comments below!

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Jordan Lueder

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