5 Signs You’re Into The Boy Next Door
If you’re finding it hard to decipher how you feel about the boy next door, you may want to leave denial behind and watch out for the signs.
1. You keep making excuses
Everyone is guilty of making up an excuse, at some point in their life. Though it becomes evident that you’re into the boy next door when each excuse leads you knocking. Be honest with yourself; you’ve drummed up excuses that are completely crazy and they’re just another reason to go talk to him. You’ve probably even worked yourself up into a state of paranoia, wondering if he has uncovered your secret agenda and despite each encounter being a heavy adrenalin rush. You still can’t stay away.
2. He’s always in your daydream
It’s a definite sign you’re falling for the boy next door when you’re consistently entering the world of fantasy. You may have noticed a slight hindrance to your attention span when focusing on lectures or going out with friends. Your brief encounter has overwhelmed you and nothing can register in your mind. Could it be? You’ve memorised his schedule and your thoughts are often lingering on the possibility of him wanting to spend time with you. If so, let facts sink in and realise your crush is taking you into a whole new world, where not even you can predict what will come next.
3. Trying too hard to look good
Something might have changed about your average day and it has nothing to do with meeting deadlines. You may recognise that your attention to detail has improved. You’re dressing to impress and not just the odd occasion- all the time. You want him to notice you for the right reasons and you’re sending out all the signals. The last thing you want is for the boy next door to catch you off guard in a moment when you’re not looking your best. So, when you step outside- first thing in the morning- to collect your post. You’ve made subtle changes to enhance your natural beauty. He’s in awe of you, as you’re smiling and grinning from ear to ear.
4. You evolve into a social butterfly
If you’re in the mood to play hard- to – get and you want the boy next door to acknowledge your presence. You might find that your usual Saturday evening in bed with your favourite film, turns into a social event and with you as the host. Whilst he’s thinking he’s figured you out. You’ve made it your aim to correct him and coerced his intrigue. You’ve shown him you can be just as mysterious and not to be underestimated. The desire to keep him on his toes and to preserve his curiosity is a sure sign that you want more than just friendship goals. If you’re surrendering to your hormones, there is no room for doubt where the boy next door is concerned.
5. You instantly say – yes
Nothing is too much trouble to please the boy you hardly know. When the boy next door finally does approach you to ask for a favour, your instant answer is…Yes! You might have arranged a slumber party for you and your girlfriends, but cancel and reschedule because you’re hoping that one day he might ask you for a little bit more. If the words just come spewing out and it’s a natural instinct. You may want to ponder the idea that you’re starting to make the boy next door a priority. Today you tutor him in maths; tomorrow you could potentially be his girlfriend.
