Are you seeing signs signs he’s a selfish lover? There should be certain rules and lines in bed that have been discussed with your partner fully, certain actions or words aren’t okay. Being aware of these means both partners can have a better, more fulfilling experience. Within this, there are certain signs that might come up to show you they are a selfish lover. Through research and personal experiences, I have tried to compile a list of ‘signs’ to help you figure out if your partner is a selfish lover.
They simply refuse to go down on you. If this is something you enjoy in bed and your partner is refusing, then its not worth it. This could show an immaturity in your partner, and is definitely one of the signs he’s a selfish lover.
They stop after they’ve finished, sex isn’t just about cumming. It’s about enjoying yourself and helping your partner to enjoy themselves.
They don’t check if everything is alright. Of course, if you’re in a consensual sexual relationship then most of the time everything will be fine. But maybe they are moving too fast or too hard and its not comfortable for you. It’s okay to tell them.
If they refuse to do the work, and constantly make you go on top. Consider changing positions, getting a bit of cardio in and having them take the reins.
If they expect to not use contraception because ‘it feels better’, this is a bad one. If they re a new partner or even if you are not on any form on contraception you need to stay vigilant and use contraception if you want to. If he is compromising your health and peace of mind, for comfort then these are signs he’s a selfish lover
They never clean up the after mess. Sex is messy, it is sweaty and sometimes there is a puddle. If your partner refuses to clean up the mess then it’s a sign they might not want to clean up other messes either.
No affection, only the physical – of course this one depends on the kind of relationship you are in and the kind of boundaries that have already been set and discussed
Again, your body is YOUR BODY. If he is telling you what to do with it, these are signs he’s a selfish lover.
If he expects you to perform when you don’t feel up to it. This one could be a sign of something worse, but again it comparable with the sort of relationship or arrangement you are in.
Female-focused TV shows have been on the rise the past few years with feminism becoming more mainstream and female actors demanding…
Do you want to create memorable DIY Father's Day gifts for your dad this year? Sometimes, crafting something yourself is…
Decorating your room can be so much fun! It’s your space and you can do literally whatever you want with…
Finding ways to be more confident in your fashion is a perfect way to increase your self-confidence and body positivity.…
The world of contouring can be a minefield for even the best of us. Where do I make my contour…
Feeling stressed about exams? Oh yeah, we've all been there! Whether it's in school, university, or a driving test, exams…