How To Make Period Sex… Sexy
In case you don’t already know, girls get super horny during their period. When it comes round to that time of the month, not only does your girlfriend become a little moodier (to put it mildly), her libido increases and she is also more likely to initiate sex. However, this can be problematic. She is also more likely to feel more self-conscious (how would you feel men to be bleeding from down below?) and often men have many reservations about doing it whilst their partner’s menstrual flow is, well, in full flow… But let me reassure you, period sex can be sexy. Period sex actually feels better for women due to increased natural lubrication from blood flow, and orgasms have been proven to relieve menstrual cramps in women also. So without further ado, below are a list of ways for how to make period sex sexy.
1.Involve some toys
Okay so I am not asking you to go down on your partner when she is bleeding, I am not that much of an animal. But it is still nice for your girlfriend to receive some stimulation. Instead of using your penis, hands or tongue, why not grab a dildo, vibrator or other form of toy to please your partner? Not only will this be more enjoyable for her, but also for you as you will be turned on by the sight of her writhing in pleasure.
2.Keep eye contact
Eye contact is key in a relationship, it is suggested that staring into your partner’s eyes can lead to a stronger and a deeper connection. Instead of freaking out about how much blood is on your bed (I’d advise you to lay a towel or two down beforehand) stare into your partner’s eyes instead. This is extremely romantic, will help put her mind at ease, and will stop you freaking out by staring at her vagina every five seconds.
3.Do it in the shower
‘It will be messy’ is not an acceptable enough excuse to put off having sex when your girlfriend is on her period. Take her in the shower, turn the water on and ensure that you are both extra wet- in more than one way. The excitement of doing it somewhere different as opposed to laying down on a bed, will ensure temperatures start rising and the shower screen will start steaming up!
4.Concentrate on other key areas
Your girlfriend might not like the idea of being touched down below, even with sex toys as mentioned above, so focus on other erogenous zones to get her breathing heavy such as playing and biting her nipples, or nibbling her earlobes. The more turned on she gets, the better the sex will also be for you and the harder and stronger your erection will be in response to your partner’s obvious enjoyment and stimulation.
5.Pin her down
Okay this sounds wayyyy kinkier than intended. But one way to ensure minimum mess is to get a bit artistic and improvise in the bedroom. Lay down a large beach towel or two to reduce the risk of blood soaked sheets and then use your hands or handcuffs to keep your girlfriend in positions that ensure she cannot leave the area of the bed covered by towels. Not only will this make things cleaner, but a little bit of dominance and assertiveness can be a huge turn on as long as you are both comfortable with it, and consent to it.
6.Make her feel desired
When your partner is on her period, she has to deal with bloating, cramps, spots to name a few. Although she might be feeling horny AF, she more than likely will also be feeling very self conscious. Shower your girlfriend in compliments and show your appreciation for all of her body, not just what lies below. Kiss every inch of her from her forehead to her toes (avoiding the obvious bleeding zone) and whisper loving phrases into her ear. If she feels sexy she is more likely to act sexy in the bedroom and this will lead to better sex and stronger orgasms all around.
So there you have it, a few ways to make period sex sexy. If you know of any other ways, then please write them in the comments section below this article. Key point to take home: don’t be afraid of period sex, it can be great for everyone involved!
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