The Best Sex Positions To Try With Your Not So Kinky Boyfriend

Like being spanked a little? Does a bit of dirty talk really do it for you? Well then you are apart of a wide group of people that define themselves as a kinky. There is nothing wrong with it. We all have a little something something we like done to us every now and then in our sex lives. As long as it is consensual to be putting whatever object your holding wherever it is going, it is all in good healthy sexual fun. So here are four titillating best sex positions that you must try with your boyfriend to bring him into your kinky ways.

The problems occur when the person we are seeing doesn’t have the same level of kink that you do. Everyone has their own experiences so you can’t expect every person you date to think the same sex positions are the best sex positions. So what do you do if your boyfriend doesn’t want to pull your hair a little bit because he’s afraid of hurting you or he’s just not comfortable with it? Well, first have a talk with him. Open communications is key in having a relationship and even more important when it comes to all things sexual. Have a nice open discussion about what you would like to see anything more of in between the sheets. You’re not telling him what he is doing wrong, just letting him know what will really do it for you when it is all getting hot and heavy. Now you can’t just expect him to be your very own Christian Grey right away. So once everything is out on the table try a few of these positions to get him into the right state of mind to try new things.

1. Chest Lock

If you are into deep penetration then this is the best position for you. You lie on your back and raise your knees up to your chest. Don’t worry they can be bent, we all aren’t as flexible as we like to be. You can wrap your arms around your knees if it helps. Your fella then lies on top of you, make sure that he is supporting his weight with his arms and knees or this position can be particularly uncomfortable. Once he is in just the right spot you can rest your legs on his shoulders if that is easier for you. This position will help him get extremely deep and it makes your boyfriend’s penis feel bigger because of the tightness of your vagina in this position. You can be incredibly intimate when you are tangled up like this face to face and he will feel like a king with the way you will be moaning.

2. Seated Straddle

Now this position can be a little tiring on your legs so be sure to physically and mentally prepare for this one. Your man is doing to get nice and comfy on a chair. An armchair works, but a kitchen or desk chair works better as long as they don’t have armrests. Once your both ready to go at it, you simple straddle him and go to town. Since all the work is being done in your legs it leaves the rest of you completely free for kissing and touching one another.

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3. CAT

CAT stands for the Coital Alignment Technique, very technical I know but it is not as difficult of a position as the name might lead you to believe. You start off in a simple missionary position. As he is putting his weight on you he will need to edge a little forward on you so that his pelvis is directly over yours. The pressure on his weight on your pelvis will be absolutely delicious. Once he is in just the right spot you wrap your legs around his so that you are tangled up in each other. With your legs around him like this you will be able to rock back and forth with him making it so easy to achieve those multiple orgasms we all dream of. To add a little more oomph to this position you can also stick a pillow underneath your butt to add an extra arch to the position that will help you man reach G spots you didn’t even know that you had.

4. Pillow Power

For this the lovely lady will be laying on her stomach and your guy will penetrate you from behind using his arms to hold up his weight. You’ll have a pillow underneath your pelvis. This will help build up clitoral stimulation making it amazingly easy to climax. You can add as many pillows as you like to find just the right sensation that works for both you you. This position is also great because if you boyfriend is able to hold himself up he’ll be at the perfect position to give you a couple of spanks if the mood strikes him to do so or if you demand it.

These positions might seem a bit basic to a lady that is all about the kink in their sex life, it is just enough to help work your man into the life of tying you up and pulling your hair. Just make sure everything you want to do is something that he wants to do. The key to a healthy and happy sex life is making sure everyone is on the the same page if you do that every sex position you try will be the best sex position.

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