10 Signs She’s Not That Into You

Dating can be so much fun, but it can be really stressful at times. There’s nothing worse than not knowing if the girl you’re into feels the same way about you. As they say, “it’s complicated”. Sometimes, it’s as easy as understanding the way she responds to you and other times she may just be impossible to read. Whether you’ve been dating for a few days or a few weeks, here are the 10 signs she’s not that into you!

1. Something ALWAYS comes up

No matter what day or what time it is, she always has something that she suddenly has to do. If it’s once in a blue moon, don’t over think it. But, if she is constantly bailing on your plans, it’s time to rethink things.

2. She never texts you first

You shouldn’t be the one who is always initiating the conversation. Chances are she always has her phone around, so if she isn’t thinking enough about you to text you first, then she’s probably not feeling it.

3. She always avoids seeing you or hanging out

If you have been texting for weeks and you can’t get her to hangout, things aren’t going to work out. Look for things like “we’ll hangout soon”, “IDK we’ll see”, “maybe next week” because those are some sure tell signs.

4. You only get one-word replies

“Good”, “ok”, “yeah” are always convo killers. If she seems to always reply with those one-worders, shes not that into you.

5. She doesn’t let you get close enough to kiss her

Whenever you hangout you go in to the make a move, but you can see that she is standoffish. If you guys are sitting and she sits further away from you or always backs up, she may not be into you the way you’re into her.

6. She doesn’t text you back for a long time

Let’s get real, everyone is constantly on their phones or at least has their phones with them close by. If you text her in the morning and she doesn’t get back to you until later in the day, she didn’t care enough to respond.

7. She doesn’t want you to meet her friends and it’s been months

Meeting her friends is a HUGE step into a relationships. If she doesn’t see you fit to meet them, she is clearly holding something back.

8. She only texts you late at night

If you only hear from her after 8pm, especially on the weekends, then you’re probs just her booty call. She sees you as a hookup and nothing else.

9. You never go on actual dates, just hook up

Your “dates” consist of going to the bar and then going to each other’s places. Nothing more. That’s a big sign that she isn’t into dating you, but just having fun and keeping things on a hook up level.

10. You always have to be the one to make the plans

Dating and relationships are a two-way street. Both of you should be putting in the same amount of effort, including making the plans. If you always have to plan things out and ask her to hangout, something isn’t right. If she really was into you, she would be excited to plan things out.