If the guy you’re dating at the moment is any or a combination of the following, do yourself a favor now – RUN! Here are some red flags to look for that indicates he’s not really that into you.
He continuously cancels plans. If he’s constantly bailing your plans, he’s probably doing it for a reason. And he has quite the extensive collection of excuses up his sleeve.
You are the one who’s consistently reaching out to him first. If you don’t initiate a conversion, you likely won’t even hear from him that day.
And when you do reach out to him, his responses are always super short. One word responses are sort of his thing. His communication skills are close to nonexistent.
He barely answers his phone when you call, but when you are together it’s glued to him.
When mentioning your presence in a casual conversation he avoids using the term girlfriend.
He doesn’t want you to meet anyone because he doesn’t know what to label you as. You aren’t his girlfriend, but using the term “bang buddy” sounds a bit harsh.
He will totally flip if you even think about initiating that conversation with him. If you even mention the word relationship, he immediately goes into panic mode.
You are constantly going above and beyond to please him but get from him nothing in return.
He knows exactly what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. He’s quite the smooth talker and charmer. He can weasel his way out of just about anything. He knows exactly what he’s doing and he does it well.
Your friends can see through his egotistical ways, and they hate him. They think you can do way better than him. (And, they’re right, you totally can.)
You’re confused 99 perfect of the time because he is horrible at expressing his feelings. He confuses the crap out of you and he enjoys every second of it.
He always seems to be doing other things when you ask him to hang out.
He likes to hang with you at home and at home only. He doesn’t bring you on dates or out to do fun activities together that involve going out in public.
You feel like you’re always desperately waiting around for this guy, at his beck and call.
He’s guilty of using the drunken midnight booty call method in order to grab your attention. And the worst part of that is, you fall for it every time.
He only communicates with you through snapchat and/or other various social media platforms. And that’s because those conversations automatically delete themselves. Enough said.
His level of effort is extremely minimal, if even anything at all. But, he puts in the very bare minimum just so that he keeps you wrapped around his finger.
He says things like “I’m not looking for anything serious right now” or “I don’t want a relationship at the moment”. And that is because he wants you when he wants you, and that’s it. He wants his cake and to eat it, too.
When you look over at him texting away he’s eyeing you to make sure you’re not watching him. He’ll slowly move his screen the opposite way so you can’t see him texting a bunch of other chicks.
He won’t look you directly in the eye during conversation because he’s a slimy, shady mother*cker.
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