5 Questions Women Wish Men Would Ask During Sex
Sex does not have to be as complicated as a Japanese puzzle. With good communication and relaxation you can have a really great time in bed. Not all women like everything the same, so what worked with one girl may be awful for another. Men need to learn what women like to get repaid in ways that they have only dreamed of.
Talking to each other is key and definitely not awkward if you do it in the right way. Sometimes, if you become the boss your partner may like it. But ask what they like before hand, get to know them. Here are five key questions that you should ask before (or during) sex in order to have the best experience.
1. What Is Your Favourite Position?
Some girls are to shy to tell you what their favourite position is. Sometimes it is nice to be chucked all over the place and be bent up like a pretzel. But, every woman has their favourite position. Getting them in their favourite position at least once during sex will be a huge hit. Women are more likely to relax and let go, and lets not forget enjoy it more. While it might be fun to experiment, good old fashioned vanilla sex can go a long way.
Be respectful, don’t laugh or make the girl embarrassed when you ask this question. The possibilities are endless with this question. If the girl likes missionary, try and show her your favourite and she might enjoy it too. You don’t have to make sex boring or complicated. As long as you treat her and she treats you – you’ll have a great sex life.
2. How Do You Like It?
Rough, soft, hard, gentle, the list goes on. You do not want to start humping like a rabbit and your partner lay there with a poker face. Different people like different kinds of sex and with that it is important to ask. Ensure that you are both enjoying the sexual activity and ask before you get down to it. Although, sometimes the moment will tell you what is appropriate, every sexual experience is unique.
Some are more confident with their sexuality than others so will like taking control and know what they want. But, some may not. Experiment and try things, try different paces and try using different parts of your body to awaken your senses. Get intimate and get to know your partner. You can thank me later.
3. What Makes You Orgasm?
Shock – women like sex as much as men do, and they like to have an orgasm. If you are one of those people that don’t last very long (I know it is hard to admit to yourself) then ensure that your woman can orgasm first. Some can orgasm through sex but nearly 90% of women can’t. If you don’t know what the clitoris is or how it works – google it.
If you can make a girl orgasm it will not only make you very popular but it will also make your sex life sky rocket. She will thank you in so many ways. It may not happen through sex but ensure that you are stimulating the clitoris with your hands or even tongue. But, were not here to give you a sex ed lesson, we’re here to make sure you ask the question.
4. Are You Comfortable?
Being self conscious is a really bad thing to experience during sex. This question is one for the beginning or if you are getting the vibes that they aren’t as relaxed as they should be. You do not have to always ask this question but always look out for signals that she may not be comfortable. Relaxation is key to good sex.
However, they may be comfortable in the act but just not what you are doing to them. This should not be an ego shock. Her butt may be cramping or her leg in a funny position or you are going at a tempo that she does not like. These are all minor things that can be fixed. She may not say anything because she doesn’t want to embarrass you, but just ask a quick question, and it will work in your favour.
5. Are You On Any Contraception?
Here is the thing, taking the pill or having the implant or coil does not protect you from STD’s. While condoms aren’t the nicest of things, they feel funny and can be messy, they are the only thing that do protect you from anything nasty. You should be able to enjoy sex and not be paying the price for it after two weeks.
It is actually quite sexy for a man to whip out a condom and put it on. Protect yourself of any and all situations that may occur from having sex. Safe sex is great sex. Double check for a latex allergy and if you are not comfortable yourself don’t go through with it. If she is taking contraception then double up – better to be safe than sorry.
