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I Had A Threesome And It Was The Best Sex I’ve Ever Had

It seems that these days, there is a lot of potential for a woman to explore her own sexuality without holding back. Hook up culture is starting to become more accepted, along with the woman’s place in it. For the most part, it can be embraced without much ridicule. We can explore, without feeling too embarrassed. This is probably why it was so easy for me to experiment in having a threesome, only to find out how much I really enjoyed the experience. Don’t get me wrong, sex with one partner is great, but having two was definitely worth trying out.

You get the best of both worlds.

As a bisexual woman, I’ve had experience with both men and women. Both have made lasting impressions and both have made me feel sensations that I’ll never forget. So, it was exciting actually being able to have sex with both at the same time.

Men and women have different ways of pleasuring one another. While a man may be rough and forward, a woman can be gentle and wanting you to take the lead. Being able to feel both of these sensations at once was not only mind-blowing, but a learning experience in how we can all benefit in different types of sex. It was also interesting seeing how the other two partners engage with one another and how to can help the process of reaching to a climax.

When it’s done right, there’s no judgement or jealousy.

I was lucky enough to experience a threesome with two people I not only really liked, but trusted. This is what made everything come across so easy and light-hearted. There was not one person getting more attention than the other. If anything, we were all getting just enough to reach a climax.

We all had our time and when it was my time to have all the attention, I wanted nothing more than to give it right back. It involved a lot of give and take that you may not necessarily be thinking about with just one partner. It’s as if you’re learning how to share one another, without having conversation. It was a beautiful process.

You see sex differently afterwards.

Honestly, after having a threesome I feel like sex has become more significant to my life. Not that I want to go around having a bunch of threesomes. If anything, I feel less compelled to just give it up to anyone. It’s not something I just want to give away now, because I saw the importance of sharing something different and beautiful with people I cared about.

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After experiencing it in this life-altering way, it becomes difficult to just have sex with anybody. You’re reminded that sex is actually something really special, to be shared between people you love and trust. Having a threesome didn’t feel like I was stepping out of a societal norm, it almost felt necessary for me to appreciate sex more than ever.

It felt natural.

I think that a lot of people will read this article, thinking many different things. While some may think it’s unnatural or difficult to comprehend, others may become curious. It’s out of the societal norm to speak openly about sex—especially when it’s different than your stereotypical, romantic, one male to one female relation.

But, I think it felt so natural to explore the different ways of pleasuring not only myself, but others as well. It didn’t feel wrong at all. It felt like a special moment that I’d remember for the rest of my life. Maybe I’ll never do it again and stick to finding that one special person I can engage with sexually, but I’ll never regret the experience I had.

What are your thoughts on exploring your sexuality or on having a threesome? Tell us in the comments below!

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