Being a Gemini myself I know there are some difficulties in becoming friends with like signs and others, but I also know that with some proper communication, achieving even a modicum of friendship is possible.
When two Geminis meet one of two things will happen: 1) They instantly connect and are on the path to becoming great friends, or 2) There is an instant dislike of one for the other or of either. Now the second option is not anyone’s fault necessarily but it does happen sometimes when your personalities just do not match.
The tricky thing about meeting a Gemini for you is feeling intimidated, and probably like you can’t get a word in edgewise. But don’t fret! There is a solution: being open and honest taking the leap of faith even though that might seem difficult. Geminis are actually very good listeners and they do want to know you.
With a shared passion for life and love when you meet a Gemini the emotional connection is strong. You both already want to get to know each other and feel like you could talk for hours doing so. Be aware though, with such fast intimacy comes to the high probability of a budding romance between you and a Gemini. Geminis have a tendency to create friendships fast and romantic relationships faster, be sure to be honest about your intentions with the relationship your forming.
Since Gemini are more outgoing and free-spirited while you are most likely grounded and down to earth it may be difficult to find a balance to becoming friends. But never fear the power of opposites attracting. When getting to know each other find the quality of the Gemini that brings you off the ground and quality of yourself that could bring the Gemini down from the clouds. Finding common ground if the first step for you two to become great friends.
Since you’ll both possibly have similar personalities the likelihood of you becoming fast friends is inevitable. But remember to be careful, if you’re just looking for friendship you might realize there could be the potential for something more between you two. If that’s what you want, fantastic, if not, be sure to share your feelings forthright. Geminis appreciate honesty more than anything.
There is not a likely chance for friendship to bloom for you and a Gemini. Gemini has a tendency to laugh at the deep and meaningful, which could annoy you. You, in turn, could annoy a Gemini by trying to teach them that the deep and meaningful parts of yourself are not meant to be humorous but rather taken seriously. Geminis understand if your personalities just do not mesh well. However, they can be open and willing to communicate about most feelings, it’s just a matter of finding a good balance of communication.
You and Geminis get along swimmingly due to an interest in emotional attachments to the self and to the people in your lives. There’s no doubt that when the two of you get together deep conversations will be had, further strengthening the foundations of your relationship. Even when you first meet you might be willing to share some deep, intimate details about yourselves. But don’t be scared to do this, Geminis are accepting of most emotional disclosure and will be willing to hear you out.
When meeting a Gemini you might try to figure out who they are too quickly, which will make them feel attacked and they won’t try to get to know you. When approaching a Gemini in this way, make the questions you have fun! Approaching them with kindness will give you an in because Geminis love meeting new people, but they want to make sure they can trust you too.
Since your personalities will mesh well, not that they will necessarily be the same, you will get along fantastically. The give and take of your friendship will be helping each other realize there is no limit to what you can do together. In these friendships, it is easy to become emotionally attached to each other, therefore, forming a new romantic relationship that has a very good chance of lasting.
You and Geminis don’t get along well in personal and intimate settings which isn’t either of your faults, it can just be how it is. However, when meeting in public you take the time to get to know one another amongst the bigger group you’re in. This type of meeting could lead to a more meaningful relationship later on but being in groups would help to progress that relationship.
When you meet a Gemini becoming friends won’t be the issue. It’ll be deciding what adventure you will go on to earmark the start of new beginnings. You will rely on them immediately knowing you can trust them with any lingering secrets or major feelings you may be having. You’ll learn quickly that you’ll butt heads with a Gemini on some mediocre topic that won’t affect your friendship negatively.
Now you and a Gemini might be great acquaintances and it would be a lot of effort on your part to learn more about them, then sharing more about yourself. A Gemini is an open book and an open ear, willing to listen and share with anyone but it takes being interested in you for them to want to stick around. So make sure you’re willing to put in the effort for that friendship too.
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