How To Dirty Talk Without Completely Freaking Her Out

Sometimes a fun way to take this up a notch in the bedroom is to talk dirty to her. Keep reading to learn how to dirty talk to her.

Sometimes a fun way to take it up a notch in the bedroom is to talk dirty to her. But if you’re a dirty talk virgin, that can seem like a pretty scary thing to do. Keep reading to learn how to dirty talk without completely freaking her out.

Don’t Get Offensive

This is like the Golden Rule of how to dirty talk. No matter what you say, don’t get derogatory. Unless it is something you have talked about beforehand, no girl wants to hear offensive words in the bedroom. It is a major turn off and will totally make her feel objectified.

Say Her Name

This is a simple one, but if you aren’t sure where to start, just say her name. (And good Lord, please say the right one.) This lets her know that you are in the moment and that whatever she is doing, she’s doing right.

Tell Her What You Want

If you are just starting to dip your toes in the dirty talk waters, simply tell her what you want. Don’t demand, but say you “love it when she…” or that it “feels so good when she…” These kinds of lines will not only make her feel confident that you are enjoying the experience, but also will help her learn what you like and don’t like.

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Tell Her What You Want To Do To Her

Another sexy move is to tell her want you want to do to her. If you tell her before you show her, you will drive her crazy. This will also be a good indication for her that you aren’t the kind of guy who will lay back, receive, and call it a day.

Tell Her How You Feel

Tell her how you feel or how she feels. Even though it might seem like a given that you feel good, it is always nice to hear.