Categories: RelationshipsSex

How To Get Your Guy To Have A Threesome

Ladies, ladies. It’s okay, we all know that guys aren’t the only ones that have their secret crazy sex fantasies. We know you want to get down and dirty with your man every once in a while, and that’s OKAY. Thinking about that one question burning in the back of your head when you’re with your guy – how can I get my guy to have a threesome? Does he even want to have a threesome? What if he thinks I’m weird for suggesting a threesome? Is it weird for me wanting to have a threesome? Well, ladies don’t stress anymore we have all the answers to your dreaded threesome questions!

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1. BREATHE. Know that it is totally normal to HAVE sex fantasies.

Every person with a sex drive is going to have different so-called fantasies. Whether it’s a roleplaying fantasy or a ménage à trios fantasy, it’s very normal to want to spice up your relationship. One can have many reasons to want to have a threesome. For some it is a life-altering experience, or a check on their bucket list, for others, it’s something  to please their partners.

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2. It won’t happen unless you ask.

Most guys are very open to having a threesome (as long as it’s with another girl), so just be open and talk to your man. Communication is the biggest key to a great sex life. You need to have balanced communication with your man in order for both of you to get the most out of your sex relationship. And remember, it’s never going to happen unless you ask. Once you bring it up to your man it can either go both of two ways. He says yes and it’s a go! Or he says no. This is when you have to put a little extra effort it.

3. Highlight the positives to having a threesome.

Even if his immediate response is “no,” don’t just shut down – this is your fantasy and you should at least try to make him understand that. There are three advantages to having a threesome; fulfilling a fantasy, improving your sex life, and enjoying a new experience. These new perspectives might sway his decision.

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4. Give him the details.

If that doesn’t work start getting very descriptive in what he gets out of it. The majority of guys think that girl on girl action is hot, especially if it’s his girlfriend with another girl. Paint a picture with your words about what could possibly happen during the ménage à trios and I’m sure you’ll have him begging at your feet.

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5. Once he agrees, make sure the actual threesome lives up to both your standards.

Once you have him convinced, go and get it! But just keep these few things in mind. There is no ‘I’ in a threesome. There are three people in bed and everyone needs to be satisfied, so don’t be selfish. Set boundaries. If two people are in a committed relationship, make sure you both know what’s okay and not okay. Always have safe sex!  We don’t want the spread of diseases to ruin all the fun. Finally, trust your instincts, just follow your gut feeling about everything. Have fun and get it on!

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Alexandra Smith

Alexandra Smith is majoring in Psychology, with a minor in Creative Writing. In her free time, she enjoys running, hanging out with family friends, and roaming the world with her camera in hand.

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