Having sex for the first time is made out to be a lot more than it ever really is. Chances are, things will get weird (really weird). The more open you are with the person you’re having sex with, the better off you both will be! Breathe and remember that it is something you’re supposed to have fun with and enjoy. If you are having second thoughts, it’s probably not time. But, if you’re ready, here is what you can expect when you lose your virginity!
You both most likely have no idea what to expect or what you should be doing. But, the bright side is everyone starts somewhere. Laugh about it and talk it out because that’s the only way it’s going to be less awkward. Just remember that she/he probably feels just as awk, so you aren’t alone!
Discomfort is very common, especially with women. Make sure to take things slow and that the person you’re having sex with is comfortable!
The movies and shows you watch that involve first time sex are nothing like reality. You can go the extra mile and try to make things romantic, but it won’t change that it’s a brand new experience.
That doesn’t mean you aren’t good at sex. So, don’t worry, you’ll go longer the more you have sex.
As mentioned before, things can feel really weird. This can cause her to tense up and will lessen the chances of having an orgasm. It’s important that you use plenty of foreplay to get her going!
It’s normal for there to be spotting and a bit of blood. It doesn’t happen to all women, but a high percentage. Don’t freak out and make her feel weird about it. It is what it is.
TALK, TALK, TALK. The more you both communicate, the better the sex will be.
If you haven’t practiced putting it on, you may struggle.
Don’t expect any fantasies to come true on your first time. That comes with practice.
Trust me. Sex can only get better from here!
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