Trust me when I say this; but when it comes to most relationships in today’s generation, I feel as if our most typical ways to find what we want have starts to diminish. The main question to ask ourselves is how can one fix this simple problem you ask, simple it is all about find intimacy through communication.?
Ok, I know most people want to blame the reason why most couples are having fallouts today because of where we are living. I mean I won’t lie, we live near Northern Virginia where most young people like to be wild and free from any type of relationship drama. But as we start to age, eventually that young wildlife has to come to an end and we need to start finding intimacy with someone to seek companionship so we don’t end up feeling as if we need to constantly party just to fill up an emotional void in our thirty’s. For God’s sake, that’s a mid-life crisis, something we all do not want to go through.
Alright now I will not lie, but if there is one thing that has become one of the biggest contributors to failing relationships, that is social media. We have replaced our forms of communication with simple means of logging on to online social networking sites that allow us to receive more attention from strangers rather than from people who we know. Most couples like to use it as a way to express themselves such as posting provocative content or talking to multiple people to seek attention.
It’s one thing to always look at other couple’s social media couples posts and be envious of how they are always traveling. Instead of wishing that was you, go out and make it happen by choosing to be secluded in a nice relaxing area with each other.
The first step for couples wanting to fix their intimacy troubles is by acknowledging that there is a problem, and when there is a problem there is someone out there who is willing to take the time out to listen to each other’s problems.
It’s one thing wanting to constantly stay fit and have that perfect figure, why not make it a power couple idea.
Remember as a teenager, we always made it a big deal when you and your best friend got into their first relationship and got to do double dates? It may sound a bit cheesy, but as we age into adulthood, having friends who are already couples helps broaden our forms of finding intimacy.
Even though the idea of finding intimacy to always be around each other, sometimes having not enough space to ourselves can do more damage in a relationship than good.
yes guys even though the idea of intimacy should be a 50/50 relation, but just know that if there is any type of fallout between you and her, just know that you are most likely the one at fault and must admit that.
A lot of us feel as if when we first getting to know someone, that tells us we should try and make an immediate relationship with that person. But really, all your doing is setting yourself up for failure choosing to rush yourself in a situation like that.
The first step to find intimacy relationship starts with being able to love yourself first before you can love someone else.
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