10 Kinky Toys To Try Out In The Bedroom With Your SO
Sex is excellent; sex with your significant other is even better. However, even with the best, sometimes it just gets…stale. There isn’t anything wrong with that, but having a toy or two in your arsenal is always a good idea. With that being said, here are some kinky toys to try out in the bedroom – you won’t be disappointed.
Starter Bondage Kit
All right, this isn’t necessarily a specific toy, but a whole ass kit for you to use. This is great, especially for people who have never tried BDSM.
Just in case you didn’t know, BDSM is erotic and has many roles. You can be something called top/dominant, or you can be bottom/submissive. The top partner performs or controls all and anything that the bottom wants to be done to them. The partner who is bottom receives or is controlled. In other words, dominant only does what the submissive is comfortable with. Have a safe word, and make sure they have your consent to everything you do.
This beginner kit comes with a blindfold, small ball gag, soft flogger, and adjustable wrist and ankle cuffs. Enjoy your Subs, Doms.
Mini Wand Vibrator
We love this wand – really, really love this wand. It has a bendable neck and a high-strength motor. What’s great is that you can use this wand in either water and its wireless. Use this as foreplay. Allow your significant other to pleasure you to oblivion. Once they’ve done that, go into doggy style and let the person penetrating you use it on you. Trust, you’ll be satisfied until the end.
Anal Plug
All right, first off, this isn’t for first-timers (unless you want to ease yourself into it), but this is great for when you want dual penetration when receiving vaginal intercourse. If you do decide you are ready for an anal plug, use the smallest one you can find, and don’t forget to use lube. You don’t want to hurt yourself.
Clit Stimulator
Ladies, this will leave you shaking in orgasmic pleasure. There are multiple speeds, and what is great about this kinky toy is because it’s made explicitly for your clitoral area. Allow your partner to use it on you, allow your partner to watch as you use it, or use it while your partner is penetrating you. There are multiple ways to use this stimulator to spice up your sex life in the bedroom.
Penis Ring
This ring isn’t made just for the men in mind. This is to pleasure the receiver as well. This allows the penetrator to stay hard and last a lot longer. You can choose from many speeds, and the shape is great. The angular shape covers the entire clit area while he’s penetrating. What’s great about this kinky toy is that you can also use it in the shower and tub. You can adjust the ring for when you want to use it while in the doggy position.
Low-Temperature Candles
Wax play in the bedroom is not new, and it isn’t vanilla. However, just in case you don’t know what it is, let us tell you. Wax play is technically a form of BDSM where the person who is causing the pain will pour hot wax on his or her partner. It’s a great way to spice up your sex life in the bedroom. This kinky toy is perfect because they burn at such a low temperature that it won’t burn the skin. It’ll give you that hot sensation you’ll be begging for, but no burning.
Please be careful, with either these candles or others, you can end up burning your partner or rip the skin off when removing the wax. You need to be gentle and careful of the area around you.
Riding Crop
If you enjoy being spanked while having sex, then this will be great for you. In the BDSM community, they call whips of any kind “impact play” that includes spanking. As usual, remember to communicate with your partner about how much pain they consent to before, during, and after. Riding crops are great for when you are just introducing kinky toys into your sex life. They have more surface area at the tip than a whip does, so there is less pain on impact.
Tip: when using the crop, please just stick to anything that is protected by muscles or fat like the butt or thighs. Also, try to use a light hand and work your way up to what your partner enjoys.
Remote Controlled Vibrator
Remote-controlled vibrators are perfect for you and your partner. The shape of it was made specifically for when you and your partner are having sex. The curved arm is to rest and stimulate the clit while the other is to rest inside of the vagina. So it provides vibrations to both partners.
However, stimulation during sex isn’t the only use you can have for this kinky toy. You can also download the app, which is perfect if your relationship is long-distance or you want to start the foreplay early while you are out and about. Get as kinky as possible. Both of you will want to run back home as quickly.
Door Swing Sex Set
This is the best thing you can ever think about purchasing when wanting a kinky toy for you and your significant other. It’s easy to set up over your door, and the straps are adjustable! The adjustable straps allow for better and deeper penetration, who doesn’t want that? This usually means this set is great for seasoned kink toy users and the beginners.
Nipple Clamps
Ladies and gentlemen, you both have nipples. Don’t either of you be embarrassed by the fact you want someone or something to pinch you. If it feels incredible, it’s great, and it’s a great kinky toy. This is also great if you’re exploring BDSM.
The dominant partner usually places these nipple clamps onto their submissive partner. These specific nipple clamps are adjustable, which is excellent for anyone who is just beginning to use one. You’ll lightly place the clamps on the nipples and then tighten it to what the submissive partner is comfortable with.
There are so many more kinky toys to use out there in the world. There are so many ways to spice up the bedroom with your significant other. Whatever you do decide to use, you won’t be disappointed. Do you have a kinky toy you love using in the bedroom? Let us know in the comments!
