How To Make The Most Of Quick Sex
Ever been in a situation where things get hot and heavy but you’re on a time crunch? No one should ever let a restriction as basic as time hamper the opportunity for great sex. With these easy and quick tricks, you’ll be sure to make the most of those times when a quickie is all you can do!
Prepare yourself
If you know you’re going to be on a time crunch, turn yourself (and your partner) on before the big event. Sending your partner cute and sexy pics throughout the day means that you’ll get the flirtation which comes with foreplay out of your system plenty early, leaving lots of time to bring yourself to arousal. Plus, teasing your partner gives them something to look forward to all day, and both of you will definitely be in the zone by the time of your quickie.
Flexibility is critical in “preparing yourself” for the main event, seeing as you have no idea what’ll happen throughout the day. But hey – spontaneity just adds heat to the flame!
Wear something easy to take off
Ever killed the mood because of fussy buttons or zippers? If you’re wearing some elaborate outfit, getting it off is half the task. When you’re on a tight schedule, sometimes undressing can kill the mood altogether! Wear something that gives your partner easy access – like leggings and a tee shirt – so that take off is hassle free. The desperation of literally ripping off those garments is a task in and of itself, and is the perfect storm for giving off urgent, quick sex vibes.
Another option is staying partially dressed, and believe it or not, you and your partner will have just as much intimacy; making sure certain pieces don’t fall off your body actually gives you and your partner something to focus on together, heating things up in half the time!
Figure out your positions ahead of time
You might be thinking, “But then there’s not surprise!” Listen: you’ve gotta take what you can get! If you’re trying to make the most of the time you do have, the situation might not be ideal. And figuring out the whole act will make the process seamless, leaving little room for error. If you’ve got the choreography under control beforehand, your quickie will definitely be smooth sailing.
Quick sex is all about efficiency. Positions that are quick and easy are obviously going to be your best bet, and knowing what works for you is crucial to making sure you get the most stimulation in the shortest amount of time.
Use all your resources
Engaging every point of arousal on the body makes for the ultimate sensory experience…quite literally! If you’ve only got a few minutes to spare, stimulating different parts of your partner’s body will communicate feelings of desire and urgency, intensifying the experience altogether. Plus, who doesn’t feel wanted and loved when they’re getting attention in unimaginable places?
Consider location
Sometimes, the bed is too boring. If you’re in a hurry, ditch your queen size for something spicier! The thrill of getting caught can even arouse you more than the sex itself, giving you a spontaneous thrill ride in a matter of minutes. Bathrooms are a good option for quick sex because not only do showers provide easy lube, but what’s hotter than some steam and a mirror?
Put on a killer playlist
Ambiance is everything in terms of making the most of quick sex. Curating a chill, indie playlist will boost your mood and squash other sensory distractions for those times when where you and your partner need to do it one-and-done style.
With the lights dim and some chill hop going in the background, you’re bound to have that full sensory experience – even if it’s only for a couple minutes! Listening to music is proven to have physiological benefits, like increasing signs of arousal including heart rate and breathing pace. It also produces dopamine, a hormone released during sex. Doubling down on your body’s arousal and hormone production through both sex and listening to music means double the pleasure, making sure you’re stimulated for those times you’re in a hurry.
Talk it out
Communication is key for anything, and that rule definitely applies to the bedroom as well! Telling your partner what you want is always a good idea, but it’s especially important during quick sex. In this case, you’ve got no time to waste on letting someone figure out your needs and how to get the job done. Tell them what you want, when you want it, and get your priorities straight. You’ll have a flaw free experience, and it’ll also bring you closer to the person you’re doing it with.
Let your partner take over
Really good sex happens when you aren’t thinking about anything except the task at hand (literally), but sometimes – especially when you know it’s going to be quick sex – you just can’t get your head in the right place; you’re too caught up in whatever’s going on outside the bedroom to get yourself to feel turned on. End that awful pattern by letting your partner take over and bring you to climax!
When you start thinking too hard, those other distractions come to the surface, stress you out, and can make your orgasm take longer (or not happen at all). If all else fails, by letting someone else do all the dirty work, your internal auto pilot will turn on and you’ll enjoy every second of it… even if it’s just a quickie.
Accept any flaws
Chances are, quick sex is not going to be perfect. But that’s okay- it’s better to try something and laugh it off than to waste your time wondering about what you’re missing. Quickies area good way for even the busiest of people to feel some pleasure, and if you’re horny enough, you’ve got nothing to lose by trying it out to see what’s up with all the hype.
