What To Do If You Hate Your Bro’s New Girlfriend
So your best dude has a new girlfriend. He’s on cloud nine and can’t stop raving about his new girl. The problem? You absolutely hate his new girlfriend. Love has made him blind and it’s gone on far too long. Since you can’t really tell someone what to do with their life, especially their love life, here are some effective ways of letting your bud know his new girlfriend kind of sucks.
Tell Him Straight Up
The only thing you can really do is let him know straight up, that you don’t like his new girlfriend. Don’t go into the conversation empty-handed. Make sure you have yourself a list of legitimate reasons you think they aren’t a good match. Some valid reasons for not liking her are as follows: he’s an entirely different person around her, he’s stopped hanging out with his friends or he complains about her all the time. Keep in mind you never know what goes on behind closed doors. However, make sure you let your friend know once how you feel about his new girlfriend. You can only tell a person something so many times before they get sick of hearing it or think you aren’t being supportive. These are lessons people have to learn on their own.
Things To Keep In Mind Before Addressing Your Friend
Make sure you examine what it is you don’t like about your best friend’s new girlfriend. It could just be an internal issue that you are annoyed with her. Another thing to keep in mind is that the relationship is new; try not to be too quick to judge. Poor first impressions are a possibility. Whatever the reason is you don’t like them, stay open-minded to the possibility things change. Try and find a common ground with your dude’s new girlfriend. After all, this is his relationship and not yours. Keep it cool and cordial dude.
Let us know what you think about his new girlfriend in the comments below! If you think she’s a fuck girl, here’s how to tell!
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